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      tigerlily1973
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      Posted by tigerlily1973

      on Jul 25, 2009

      I have to go to the dentist on August 5th.  I'm trying really hard not to work myself up about it.  It is a mile outside of my comfort zone and I will probably have to spend an hour there.  This is something I have not done in 8 years.  When I get outside my comfort zone I start shaking and tearing up.  No matter how much I try to redirect my thoughts and focus, I end up loosing it.  The techniques I use are: positive thoughts, rubber band on my wrist, mp3 player, book for reading, and my deep breathing exercises.  I was wondering if any of you who might suffer from agoraphobia or anxiety disorders might have some techniques I haven't thought of.  I just really want to go and accomplish this task.

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        4. boardwalk posted on Feb 6, 2010
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        3. Rosie327 posted on Jul 25, 2009
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        Can't wait to read that success story!!  xox Rosie

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        2. tigerlily1973 posted on Jul 25, 2009
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        Thank you so much for responding to me.  It's kind of funny the things that should be common sense or obvious that you don't think of.  I can knit and crochet and I get very relaxed doing it.  I felt a huge duh moment when you mentioned that.  I also like the idea of counting certain color cars and the lightposts.  My therapist a long time back told me to take trips in sections.  To focus on 1/4 of the way and then when I got there to make another checkpoint about 1/4 the way more and keep going until I got there.  The problem with that was about the 1/2 way point, my mind kept imagining the distance I had already traveled and focused on far it was back...lol I think with counting, it won't put the focus on distance so much.  I appreciate your kind words and hopefully look forward to updating my blog at that time with a success story.

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        1. Rosie327 posted on Jul 25, 2009

        I had good success counting things like light posts or traffic lights or certain color cars.  It kept my mind off my situation and outside of myself.  I alo used to knit and crochet, that was a great distraction.  You might want to bring a handheld electronic game.  You can do it!  Rosie

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